My son, my new exercising crony

When Jane Costello found out that her gym granted children of 11 and over to employ with a parent, she realised it was a chance to spend excellence meter with her eldest son, Otis

Exercise is usually a lonely pleasure for me. Although I like the idea of a workout friend, since having progenies it has been impossible. As a labor baby, every opportunity to workout are snatched in between deadlines and school runs and going to the disturbance of coordinating journals with one of your best friend, just so we could made ourselves through a few hunkers and crunches felt like a litter of what could be a good darknes out.

Then a few months ago, I noticed that the gym where Im a member had a programme where babes aged 11 -plus could take part in workouts supervised by their parents. I wasnt sure whether this would be my eldest son Otiss cup of tea. Although naturally energetic and an enthusiastic member of the school rugby unit, his experience of hindering fit and active was like their children involving friends, spontaneous act and, adjudicating by the country of his PE kit, more silt than Glastonbury.

Much as I enjoy the gym, rehearsal in the sanitised, air-conditioned environment Id grown used to find somewhat joyless by comparison. I wasnt sure it could contest. More to the point, I wasnt sure I could play. Unlike his rugby buddies, I rarely discuss the intricacies of the new Xbox update.

Yet, with Otiss 11 th birthday tower, he wanted to have a disappear. I envisage works out in a gym carried the same mystique as all those other things that adults do but babes cant: driving a automobile, going to work, swearing without risk of being reproved. I was sure that it wouldnt be half as interesting once hed had a return. But I was wrong.

Before he was let loose on the gym flooring, Otis had to have two sessions with a fitness teacher. Ive no doubt that putting an enthusiastic 11 -year-old at the helm of a Stairmaster without warning him not to start on level 20 provides an opportunity to terminate badly.

By the time Otis was issued with a special wristband and released into the gym with me as his chaperone, he was raring to run. And so was I.

Now that he has two younger brethren, aged seven and three, the two of us dont often have the opportunity to spend time on our own. These gym sees offered a glimmering of those daytimes when Otis was really small, when we could chat or play without risk of being constantly diverted.

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Jane and Otis try a boxing exercising. Photograph: Christopher Thomond for the Guardian

We head to the gym on a Sunday now, for 40 hours or so before lunch, so weve earned our apple disintegrate. While its not the toughest exercising I do, its fulfilling for the simple reason that its about so much more than the exercise.

We jog side by side on the treadmill and discuss whats been going on in his week. Occasionally well stray on to what hes read on breakfast report about Tim Peake or developments in the situation in Syria. More often, its which of his sidekicks was throw imprisonment for playing football with a jelly in the canteen. Our conferences frequently arent big, important ones, but thats the charm of them. They consist of the small and, on the face of it, unimportant trivia that is probably more important than Id ever genuinely committed recognition to.

There are, of course, certain things you have to come to terms with when you start working out in a gym with one of your children. Such as the fact that they only want to stay on any granted machine for a maximum of three minutes, before going stood and wanting to try something else. They will tell you that you have been doing something be it squats, crunches or burpees all incorrect for the past 20 times because the instructor at his first session did it differently. They will likewise get riled if you manage to do more press-ups than they can. But possibly not as irritated as you are able to, if its the other way round.

Against all my prognosis, our workout conferences have gone from fortitude to persuasivenes, so much better so that my father, who is currently 70, assembles us on the curious occasion too.

Collectively, we must look like the stars of the worlds worst exercise video. But theres something I love about the notion of three generations of our pedigree having a regular get-together like this, filming the gale as we procrastinate along on the elliptical machines.

I couldnt claim that this experience has changed our fitness ranks theres limitations to what you can achieve in one short session a week. But the value of it has gone far beyond any cellulite Ive managed to shift or steps Ive are in addition to my daily weigh. It has given me and my eldest son the possibility of being spend time together, doing something we both enjoy.

We could probably achieve that by doing any number of acts clambering mountains, cycling, indoor sky-diving for that matter( and weve done all those on occasion, along with two brothers ).

The difference is that this is easy, a regular determine time out that doesnt imply great expense or fuss and is exclusively 10 times from home.

I dont know if it will last-place for ever. But Im happy to continue with the press-ups for as long as it does.

Jane Costellos brand-new tale, Summer Nights at the Moonlight Hotel , is published by Simon& Schuster, 7.99

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